The past couple years my fiance and I have been playing around with this fantasy. We play around with chastity, denial, SPH, and she gets really into all of those. She enjoys it to the point where she'll tell me to go put my cage on out of the blue during our day to day life.

The cuckolding fantasy has seemed to give her more reservations, but those have faded over time. When I am in my chastity cage, using her vibrator on her, she responds really positively to cuck talk. She'll talk about the vibrator as if it's another guy and tease me about how much better it is than me. She's gotten comfortable enough with it that she'll bring it up on her own with no suggestion from me.

The other night, after I had used her vibrator on me, she asked me if I was jealous of "him". I was a bit taken aback by how direct she was being, but pleasantly surprised. We talked a bit more about it, and I eventually asked her, matter of factly "This is probably going to happen for real, isn't it?" Without any hesitation, she nodded and said yes. She agreed with me that we both like the idea of it too much for it to never happen. She also agreed that now that we are engaged, it's even more appealing. I guess the taboo of sleeping around as a married woman heightens it.

All of this surprised me because, any time in the past I've tried to gauge her interest in making it real, she's shut it down. My thinking is that, while she's always been turned on by the fantasy, it's taken her some time to get comfortable and feel like we are secure enough that it's something she could do without jeapordizing our relationship.

So, all this to ask, what would you do next? I've been very careful to try to not push too hard. I'm hoping that that's now paying off with her seemingly deciding she wants it to happen sooner or later. Should I let this sit for a while? Or should I try to take a small step towards making it real?