Me and hubby have been on multiple apps discussing what we’re looking for and this will be our first time trying this. together we have gotten over 200 messages discussing about what we want but we’ve come across SO many weird and aggressive people. We have a pretty good sense when something is off with someone and could be a couple of weeks but then that person gets agitated that we aren’t hooking up right then and there. Are we doing something wrong or are we missing something because we’re pretty good with communication and making sure we’re all on the same page and out of all of these people there’s only one person that actually is patient (crazy work schedules etc.) and understanding.