Hi all,

I’m seeking advice and recommendations from those experienced in the lifestyle, particularly from any Bulls, cucks, or Muslims who have explored this dynamic. After many years of discussion, my wife and I are now ready to explore this lifestyle together, and we’re looking for insights as we navigate this new experience.

We both come from conservative backgrounds—my wife has never kissed, touched, or dated another man. She dresses traditionally, wearing a scarf and long, modest clothing, fitting the profile of a very traditional Muslim woman. I’m in a similar position, as I’ve only ever been with my wife, and she’s never been with anyone else before me.

My concern is whether Bulls or men in this lifestyle would be interested in someone like her. I find her absolutely gorgeous, but I wonder if men in this community might prefer women who are more outgoing or fit the stereotype of a “hot wife,” dressed provocatively and more sexually experienced.

The main reason we’re exploring this is that I’ve struggled with erectile dysfunction, and we both feel that this could help us maintain our strong emotional connection. We love each other deeply, and we hope this could be a way to strengthen our relationship.

Our dream is to find a Bull who is good-looking, fit, well-endowed, and interested in building a long-term relationship with her. We’re looking for someone who can help her open up, grow, and learn in this dynamic while also involving me in the process. Ideally, we want someone who is comfortable teaching me to improve sexually for both her and himself. I find the idea of the three of us supporting each other—while being involved with a great man—incredibly romantic and exciting. Ie even if that means him topping both of us.

We understand that this isn’t an easy journey, and we’re curious whether our desires are realistic. We recognize that many Bulls might prefer someone more experienced, but we’re committed to learning and growing together.

Lastly, I should note that I’m not interested in humiliation but rather praise and encouragement in this dynamic.

Is this vision realistic, or is the lifestyle mainly focused on sex without deeper emotional connections? I’ve seen some references to a “third” in online forums, but I’m not entirely sure how that applies to what we’re looking for.

Thanks for your insights!