Wife and I have been exploring the whole cuckold/hotwife kink in the bedroom through dirty talk. This is sitting firmly in the fantasy realm but we both seem to be having fun with it (I definitely am).

Sometimes the talk does not lead to her being physical with a third as I believe she is working over some mental blockers with it. Sometimes she is really into that aspect and other times she is not.

I'd like to state that I always allow her to take the lead on this talk as I don't want to push her.

Recently talk the last couple weeks has been around a trip away she's taking soon with some girlfriends. It revolves around me buying her some slutty bikinis which is is going to share some naughty images with me over Snapchat. This talk leads to her also modelling these bikinis for another guy over snap. This has been really hot and outside the bedroom she is keen on doing this for me (I haven't raised it for another guy but I'm hoping it might be on the cards).

Now this is a new thing where parts of our bedroom conversations is shaping into a reality. I'm feeling conflicted on how to move forward with this, whether I push it a little bit or do I leave it to her to bring up? Is there any seeds I can plant to create this conversation topic? Do I chance adding a new dirty talk topic like going down on her while she sexts on tinder (for example)?

Also, finding slutty bikinis is hard so if anyone has any suggestions/links for ideas then send them my way because it is a struggle.