I'm (53m) interested in cleaning my wife (52f) up after she gets cream pied. But...the only man's cum I have ever tasted, has been my own...And that was not known to her. We have been in to swinging, and most recently, hotwifing. Our last HW experience was about 10 yrs ago, before we moved to smalltown USA. Now that we are business owners, in a small town, we don't play with ANYONE local. In fact, we haven't played since before we moved here. Wife isn't opposed to it, but we just don't find anyone suitable when we visit big cities. (Tampa, Dallas, Seattle, etc)

I am trying hard, but I really wanna prime her to be acceptant to me cleaning her when we do eventually find the proper guy for her.

Any advice on how to broach that subject? Or what to say? She's not really in to porn, and to fill the gap so to speak, we have a larger dildo that we occasionally play with when we have sex. She needs her vibrator to cum with me, but not when I use the dildo.

Advice or suggestions?