So, my wife and I have been doing the cuck,hotwife thing for a couple of years now. The progression of things has pretty much always been the same.

First we are on a swingers website and she meets men on there,they chat and if she's feeling it we may meet and go from there. All of guys she has been with however have been well aware of our dynamic and know the rules...one of which is me being present during all meets and ABSOLUTE anonymity.

Well..... something new happened.she noticed a ( her words)really good looking guy at the local gym checking her out alot and she loves it only problem is the gym is very local and(she's investigated) he also lives very close to us and we are worried she may get caught by friends or family. She how isn't quite as worried as I am so....

My thoughts are that maybe she set it up so he thinks she's cheating ( I won't lie I think the thought is hot) so that way there if she gets caught I can deny to everyone I know that I never knew anything

Only problem with that is that I won't be able to enjoy being present

What do you all think I should do?