Good day fellow redditors So I've always been drawn to the idea of being a cuckold and watching or knowing that my SO is getting full satisfaction and a chance to just completely let loose and experience complete bliss

Our sex life has come a long way, I'm the more experimental one and she is slightly more vanilla but as stated we've come a long way, she's tried chastity on me recently after a few discussions, we've also ordered a new slightly smaller one arriving today or tomorrow, we've tried different toys and fantasy dirty talk while busy, we often make jokes about her having a boyfriend on the side to spoil her or fuck her good etc.

We've gotten to a comfortable place being able to talk about past lovers, experiences and what made those experiences stand out etc.

We've had the cuckold discussion before and she opened up to me and said that when she was younger she wanted a MMF experience but being older and having kids with me obviously those fantasies or ideas fade and trying to be responsible and keep good moral standards changed all of that We've discussed it a few times there after where in the beginning the conversation would become tense and difficult to navigate without pushing out sensitive spots or making things awkward

Recently we had the talk again and we're able to communicate effectively without any tension and we both got around to making some good points and something I've discovered is that I think her biggest fear or block is that she is afraid she might find that things are better with the other guy or bull

For clarity our relationship hasn't been perfect from the start, we both had pretty bad relationship before we got together and to shorten the whole story we had a pretty bumpy relationship for the most part mostly because of me which I sometimes think is because of our differences in how we view the world and life, that being said I'd say in all aspects of our relationship we've come along way, we battled the storms and we feel that we have come closer together, we've had lots thrown our way that we have pulled through together, so I'd say that our relationship/marriage has also come a very long way and to try explain I'd say that it's almost like a seasoned warrior or battle hardened and has definitely become alot stronger and I can only see it getting stronger at this point considering all of our progressions

So considering my wife's fear of potentially falling for or feeling that things are better with the bull, how would we navigate this or what are things we should think about and consider She hasn't made it explicitly clear that it's a no go zone, she's genuinely just worried about her fear and what comes after that I've read post where things like this have happened and it obviously goes one of two ways either the wife's leaves or they just have a way of making it work with the cuck and the bull So how do we navigate this safely, do we even try or should we forget about the idea

Sorry for the book I've written it's could have been alot longer as there's plenty more details to add so much more context to this all but just trying to get the essentials in and see what advice or guidance you guys have for us Ps. My wife has openly said and agreed that my manhood is just a tab bit under her preferences and that definitely needs extra stimulation in certain positions, also with some of the toys we've used some of her orgasms and moans are far beyond what I've been able to achieve just by myself so I definitely feel like she could benefit sexually from having a bull while I'd still be able to provide and give her the emotional, mental and romantic security she needs