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So quick preface, I'm 50 and my wife is 35. We have been in three cuckold lifestyle about 5 years.
As we have matured in the lifestyle we have gone from random hookups to LS resort s to finally finding out forever bull.
Our intent was never to give up physical Sec between us. We loved the passion of reclaim see and the bond we felt was just between us from it.
However, we have recently both acknowledged that something has changed. We have gradually completely quit having anything physical between us at all. We both agree out was not intentional, but has happened and it feels natural.
Reflecting on our situation, I realized I went from regular reclaim sex to clean up duties to voyeur only to what we are today. I have even noticed that my drive has almost completely diminished to the point that I rarely get erections even when watching them.
For me it's become more like watching an anticipated sporting event. I have anticipation, help prepare for it, and then watch eagerly, but it's like my body knows I'm not a real player.
We are not necessarily upset at where we have arrived but now curious. Her needs are more than meet by our bull so she is satisfied and I seem to be content as ever, but out just seems counter intuitive.
Anyone else had this experience?
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