So me and my current gf have been together for 10 months now. I have always been into the idea of cuckolding, Femdom, chastity, and all the above. I have discussed a bit about wanting to be dominated and she’s been somewhat open to it. But we have not explored any of that yet as we are long distance atm and only see eachother once a month. And when we do see eachother I am always dominant to her.

She does not know about the cuckolding fetish yet. Only that I want her to take charge. But there is something about watching her get fucked by another man that feels so erotic and exciting. I have a bit of experience from a prior relationship and I can’t shake that feeling.

Ig the question I have is when should I bring this up to her and how? Should I tell her over the phone or wait until i go visit her again? I am long distance but should move back with her come next summer.