I feel like I see a lot of posts about fantasies or stories where everything was awesome - so I wanted to share a story from today of what the reality of this lifestyle sometimes is!

We’ve been in the lifestyle off and on for 8 years, and had a mix of good and bad experiences. My wife met a new guy on an app and he said he was a bull, had a big dick, and lived nearby. He wanted to dominate her and send me pics and videos while I was at work… sounds hot and perfect right?

Well my phone buzzes at work today and I get all excited to see some hot pics but it’s my wife texting to tell me she was leaving already. Turns out this guy for one was a horrible kisser, which already turned her off, and then after talking about how hard he was going to fuck her he couldn’t manage to get hard. He had her keep trying for way too long and never offered to return the favor or try to get her off - just eventually gave up and she left.

Not trying to talk shit about the guy - it happens (to me all the time unfortunately lol) - but yeah there are equally as many experiences like this in reality - we have fakes, flakes, and just some general assholes who ruin things and make it exhausting sometimes.