Hubby and I have been into the kink from the start about 10 years ago...we've had encounters and took some time off between now in then but has always been our go to kink for dirty talk and roleplay.

I've noticed when we kinda started getting into it all his performance took a hit and just wasn't able to last very long.

Recently we found a great regular that lasts a good while and can give me multiple Os. However my husband on reclaim is literally maybe 5 pumps or so then he's cuming...

We recently started exploring chastity so I know he hasn't been jacking off all the time.

From the research I've gathered it seems to be more of a mental thing than a physical...we've tried numbing creams and things like that but I'm very sensitive and get UTIs very easily.

Is this something that is common in this kink? Does anyone have any suggestions on how to increase the duration?

My husband is very well endowed (haven't found one bigger yet) and I enjoy the way he feels inside of me but 15 seconds just doesn't cut it. I want to be able to include him in our sessions instead of just sitting and watching in a cage.