We are both 57 years old and have been building up to cuckolding. I have always encouraged her, we enjoyed the fantasy in bed but there was no hint of it happening for real. Then a guy she knew hit on her and she had a short affair, telling all the details and even fucking in our bed ( he is still the only man to make her cum in there). This ended as he was married but I encouraged her to try and meet someone from a contact site. A few meets which she enjoyed but ended due to distance. A year on she now has two meets arranged both with guys that are 15 years younger, taller, fitter and VWE. She really likes the look of them and we are both excited. However with two days to the first meet she told me she didn’t want me to touch her and needed to work out how much she wanted me to fuck her if at all if she has these guys. Although this is a turn on it also left me feeling quite low and excluded. We are moving to the next level. Should I tell her and risk it going further or just enjoy the ride?