So I'd like to know, maybe other newbies might also want to know .

Let's pretend I'm your husband and we embarked on this lifestyle and maybe you found a good reliable bull / lover / boyfriend, and it's been good for all 3 of us .

Now after some time you want a clean up performed on you, not only the physical part of it but you know something is going to change in your husbands head after he does this .

Here's what I'm asking,, What are you going to say to him and how would you present this to him ? Knowing him doing this act is going to either screw up his mental health or not .

Unless your a heartless wife that doesn't care about your husbands mental health , But if you do truly have compassion for him and don't want him to freak out and become some wreck of a man .

This is hypothetically speaking and also very honest .

How would you start this conversation and what all would you do and say to him so he isn't left in a straight jacket flibbering his lips .

Sure a lot will be joking about this , but all seriousness, what and how would this conversation play out ?

How would you talk to him ? Alone ? With the 3rd ? Demand ? Pressure ?

Doesn't your cuck deserve your love and compassion when venturing into something new for him ?

Maybe he is scared or nervous maybe he hopes you never ask this .

Yo those wives that have or want to ask , how would you do this ?

What would you say ?

Would you set a special time and place alone with him and talk softly ? Like how would you do this talk ?

Would you be romantic about this or dirty talking ?

Would you reassure him if doing this or chastise him ?

If like to know what all you would do and say .