Let's say your typical marriage with a family home , planning on having kids , jobs , all the things you could assume as 'vanilla ' like outside family relatives friends going on vacations life struggles staying up all night taking care of your sick SO , worring about what's the best health insurance for you both , being each others best friends ,life events and ALL that stuff .

Now can a Cuckold marriage be the same way in regards to All those things ?

Like can they have a family home together jobs ( probably the only thing that might not be different, as everyone needs a job assuming that is ) planning on having kids , and all the things I mentioned above.

Can this be achievable in a cu kold marriage? Or is a cuckold marriage one where both of only one of you thinks it's only for a temporary amount of time to have some fun like this and then when I've had all the fun I want out of it , I'm going to call it quits and get the divorce and move into a ' vanilla ' marriage and call it a day .

Cause sometimes I sit here and think could a cuckold marriage involve all these things in real life? And is it something that someone can stay in especially when having kids are concerned with. Like I couldn't see myself having kids and somewhere along the lines the kids realize what's going on . Or other factors make it seem almost like living a half life where neither side is real but only pretend for the moment.

Can true love happen in a cuckold marriage? Like can the two love each other hold hands , kiss , make love. Spen quality time together, have privacy with each other, laugh , and truly enjoy each other's company without any need for another person. Can you trust your SO with your most private moments or is everything about you open to her bull(s) .

Or is it all a facade ?