Are there any other open enm couples out there that use the cuck fetish to make it more fun and exciting for the husband while the wife is out on dates?

Sometimes when she is out on a date, I get a little jealous/envious and caught up in my feelings, but a little hotwife role play, even if the guy isn’t fully aware, makes it all super hot and exciting.

We don’t take it too serious. It’s more like role playing and can be dropped and switch to something else. It’s good to know that we’re not locked in to acting as a hotwife/cuck, and maybe that’s because we are switchy? Do the bulls out there generally get that or are they all bought in on the power trip?