I get that there are different types of men in this lifestyle.  I know it doesn’t “define” you by one trait or another, but I’m curious. 

 I am into the idea of my wife cheating or just being very into the sex she has, but with little regard to me.  My fantasies are different because they all focus on her being one of two things.  A complete slut who just has to use other men to get off (or one man).  OR her being a submissive slut who can’t say no to the men who get her horny.  Either way the ending is her cumming a lot and one of them (her or the man) being essentially a sex toy for the other to cum on.  

 I’m not into humiliation, being locked up, or any of that.  I am into watching or being told the story but not really into anyone knowing about my fetish.  What would I be considered?  Is this still cuck behavior or is it more stag type?