Long time lurker, I tried to give it a chance today! I would love some advice moving forward in the cuckold path.

Me(M)26 and my girlfriend(F)26 are a long time couple (8 years). We both didn’t had much experience before knowing each other and we basically discovered everything together. We have so much fun together and we truly believe we are made for each other.

But we decided about a year ago to spice things up. We didn’t had much other partners and we wanted to try new things in order to discover and apply new dynamics to our couple. So we found a guy online for her to play and sext with while I watch and had her telling me what she sent and how they play together. We both are more on the submissive side and he was a dominant bull so it was perfect. This is how I found out that I was made for cuckolding. I discovered sensations and emotions that I never experienced before and our couple was strengthened by this mutual agreement.

We all three loved the dynamic and progressed all together without any judgments. It was so natural that we spent almost a year playing together.

However, after a year, it stopped from a mutual agreement. We had some big changes in our life and this was the best option.

From that point, we tried to find this kind of dynamic again, without great success. We had our fun with other guys but that’s it. We think that maybe we got bored about playing online?

So here I come with my question, how to smoothly switch from online play to the real game? I mean by that, how to speak about it together? How to find the right third? Should we search online or in bars/clubs?

I would love to hear about some of your experiences!