So, our experience is very limited but we have had the fantasy for many years. It started very normal, for this kink anyway, with me approaching the wife and her having the typical responses. Ultimately she realized that it wasn't a ploy for me to cheat but a genuine desire for her to have a bull. At the time, she was traveling for work and it allowed for a couple of out of town opportunities that I previously arranged with her knowledge. One was solo and the other we both met with him in the lobby and they went solo to the room. She enjoyed both experiences but my angst was a bit high and she/we didn't know how to really make sure I stayed in that head space. That was many years ago.

Now, she is very into the whole cucking me idea and even has me wearing panties to bed on occasion. She knows that keeping me edged is the key.

This brings us to the topic of discussion, caged vs edging. Very recently the cage(which she was always against and I was indifferent about) started to gain some traction as she knows if and when she finally meets a bull for play that I shouldn't cum during or even a day or so after. After I cum, the desire is lost temporarily, this used to be days but now as short as a few hours, seems my cuck tendencies are taking over.

We bought a cage, nano sized and pink as per her request and started wearing it. Strangely, the cuck desires stay about the same, not increasing or decreasing. While, when the wife edges me, the cuck desires amplify rapidly. I found this odd but she has the same feeling. She enjoys edging me and is just blah about feeling me in the cage. She knows edging me takes me very deep down the cuck rabbit hole and she likes that.

I believe that, for us, the cage may be used for punishment if I cum(again loss of desire) during edging and during times where she meets a bull for play. This all is an effort to make sure I don't cum and maintain and or grow my cuck tendencies.

Thoughts?