So privately, I’m a very VERY submissive guy, with all the traits you’d expect with that. Yet outwardly, in real life, I’ve been career military, then law enforcement and while I do actually enjoy the ‘I need a REAL man’ talk from my SO, I have to admit I find the term ‘bull’ more and more unconvincing.

Maybe over the years we’ve met or seen pictures of so called bulls who were not particularly well endowed, not stronger or fitter than me, and certainly not (in most cases) with my own ‘alpha male’ background.

Personally, I find the term lover, or boyfriend (if regular) more fitting and less cringy. Would love to hear thoughts - from all sides as to why, or why not, the term bull should be used, and if not, what’s your preference? Is there a specific trait that is the mark of a true bull, or is it all bulls**t?!

Perhaps being a true ‘bull’ is state of mind? Maybe you just call Tyler, the guy your wife fucks, Tyler??!?

No offence intended to anyone, before I get barraged with abuse (unless it’s the nasty fun kind 😉)