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My wife had an affair a couple of years ago with my full knowledge and support. She always enjoyed telling me everything that happened. He didn’t know that I knew and although it was a hot situation it would have made their meet much easier if he didn’t think he had to keep it from me (they used to fuck in our bed). It finished after a few months and as she doesn’t want to meet a stranger we have not met anyone since. She has contacted him again recently and he is up for picking up where they left off. I’d really like for my wife to tell him I want this but do you think it could scare him away? Worth the risk ?
As the other man, here is my perspective on it.
Please do tell me he has given his full informed and enthusiastic consent. The only thing better is him sending me voicemail saying "Dude, have a lovely time with my wife. Y'all have fun together, be safe, keep it sane, and make sure it's all consensual. "
It was such a relief from my mind when a wife told me, "You can relax, you aren't doing anything wrong here. I'm not cheating on my husband. He knows where I am, who I am with and what I am doing with you. He enthusiastically consents. Look here are is me and the husbands chat history! He says have fun, hope he's great in bed tonight for you."
If you want to make a bull/lover/third happy and relaxed - tell them your husband knows and consents. It makes it easier to trust you, it makes it easier to be intimate as we are not being homewreckers, and it is also a safety thing, because we don't have to worry about getting shot or killed by an angry spouse.
It depends on the guy... some we tell some we don't. Have and good reactions when they find out and bad ones too
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