My boyfriend and I opened our relationship for me after 5 years of a monogamish relationship. Monogamish as we invited people to our bedroom from time to time but always did it together. Now I started meeting dates solo.

The idea was brought up by my boyfriend. Previously to our relationship he has had multiple partners and times of sexual freedom while for me he was the first and only partner I had ever had. Even though we have had threesomes with other men before he wanted me to be able to experience what it is like to go on a date alone. He also has a cuckold and voyeur kink which added an nice spicy element to it. I was open to the idea and eager to try.

After I dated a few men and had exciting sex adventures by myself he came to the conclusion that it was important for him to be involved to some extent. Now we're looking for fun and creative ways to involve him in some sort of roleplay or dynamic. We're not really into the common blunt humiliation and prefer teasing and playing with emotions.

Do you have some ideas?