What made you indulge into the life style?

Me and my partner are in the discussions phase right now. I’m the one with the kink, and recently presented the idea to her. For context my partner has only slept with two people. She is more reserved and isn’t eager about the idea but remains open to learn more and understand.

Our sex life is decent but It took a turn for the better when we begun discussing this kink of mine. Our overall relationship seems to have gone up a notch as a result. My partner has never been the most creative person in the bedroom and in the past our sex has been very vanilla. To my dismay, she’s never had a full on orgasm either. I believe this life style will share many benefits but it’s selfish of me to present only the pros, as it’s coming from someone who wants it.

So again, what made you ladies get into the life style?

Maybe you hadn’t explored your sexuality before?

Not being satisfied by your partner?

When your partner told you about this kink, did you worry that maybe your partner doesn’t love you enough? Or he’s not physically attracted to you?

I’d love to learn more about your experiences when your partner brought this life style up to you. I’d love to learn more about how you felt, how you handled all the emotions. And to learn more about some of the benefits (and negatives).