Good day everyone...

I wanted to touch on a few items that the mod team has been seeing a lot more of lately and to ask the community for help in correcting these behaviors.

1). Off topic posts. This sub isn't for swinging or poly relationships or race play. This is CUCKOLD psychology. Posts must stay on topic, as this side of lifestyle play is generally pretty niche. Yes, we realize that many couples play in a number of different lifestyle varieties but posts here have to be about cuckolding.

2). Offers to share videos, ask for video recommendations, rate partners... ALL off limits and will result in a ban, no questions asked. This isn't a porn sub and there is zero tolerance for this. Doubly so when it is likely that you are violating someone's consent to post their image. We trust you all know how to find porn - and it's not on this sub.

3). Engaging with people who clearly break the rules only encourages more fakes/spam/trolls. We have lately been giving out temporary bans to get people's attention but if we have to, will add this to the rules and start making them permanent. Additionally, ignorance of the rules isn't a good defense for breaking them. Don't waste our time appealing your ban if this is your defense. If you managed to create a Reddit account and somehow found your way here to make your first post, you know better.

4). AMAs are not allowed to be posted by users without the express consent of the mod team AND with full verification of the couple (otherwise, it's not an AMA but storytime - see rule #7). We have had one AMA event are are looking for more as there is value for this community in having verified couples speak to their experiences (however, a number of people who we have reached out to haven't been too keen on proving they are actually a real couple - take this how you will).

5). Stories and Status Update posts. Writing a story better suited for Literotica and then adding "thoughts?" to the end isn't a discussion or request for advice - it's jerkbait. While some context is necessary for starting a discussion, thousands of words are excessive and make it a story.

This community keeps the threshold for posting minimal because we understand the nature of kink lifestyles usually requires/demands discretion. However, it opens the door to fakes and trolls. To help keep this sub a resource for the community, we need everyone to help by downvoting rule breakers and reporting posts that violate our rules. DO NOT engage with posts that are clearly breaking our rules. Upvote quality posts and comments. Be respectful.

Lastly, please do reach out to the mod team with questions and suggestions. We don't always get our snap decisions right and we are always looking for ways to make this sub better.