Hello, I’ve brought up my hotwife fantasy to my wife and even introduced a dildo into our life after wife said she would never use since she has never used one previously. One night during using it she made me throw it out cuz she hated how it felt fake and wanted me in her instead. I said I would like to see her with a real one and bigger one like the dildo. I said just one time. She said she could never do it just one time that it wouldn’t be possible for her. She then stated what if she enjoyed it more and she no longer would want me. I gave it some time since I planted the seed and brought it up again. Her response was she would go fuck somebody behind my back if that’s what I want and I responsed with a no that wasn’t what I had in mind. She then responsed with if I continue to bring it up that she would go find someone and do it behind my back? I’m confused with her comments keep saying behind my back. Wouldn’t a simple no be better lol?