…so I ask is there a spectrum of cuckold?

I don’t call myself a cuck and tell the guys I find for my wife to play with “No cuck!” When I think cuck I immediately link it to the degradation and humiliation, which I have no interest in. Like her or him saying anything along the lines of me not being able to satisfy her or my dick is too small, is no dice! Even if I knew it was acting and not true, It hits a little too close to home on an impossible to get rid of deepseeded insecurity. (She always convinces me I’m great in all ways and this is all just fun!) So being in a chastity would be a no-go. However I don’t mind watching her getting pleasured or even complimenting how amazing his cock is or telling him how good it feels, I’ll even go as far as to clean her up if she asks (but not him). I even dream of him and her thanking me for sharing her and asking if I like watch her get railed or sucking cock. There’s not much I would decline doing for her. So am I like a cuck-lite?