Feel free to catch some backstory from previous posts.

We’ve dabbled in the lifestyle for more than a handful of years, mostly hotwife type stuff. We-she have had some fantastic experiences, but nearly all have been with guys out of our immediate area, 1 hour or more away. We have always been after a local guy, but have never had any luck finding one that checks all the right boxes. It’s definitely been our go-to for fun fantasy role play the past few months, she genuinely wants to find a local guy she can spend a couple hours with when she needs it. My wife and I have a good healthy sex life and I have no issue getting her off, but she enjoys getting used hard like a slutwife fuck toy by huge-monster cock, it’s just so primal and different. Those who know, know!

I have so much angst for when we do find this guy. I’m totally into it, but just soo overwhelmed by the actual thought of it. I think a lot has to do with not knowing how this guy is a gonna be. As you may know, some guys see totally cool with it and it just flows and others are really weird in a variety of ways… We’ve talked about using tinder and just leaning into the cheating wife fantasy and myself just being none the wiser; however that makes pics and other fun stuff harder, which is why we tend to like experienced lifestyle guys.

The challenge is finding very hung-thick guys, it’s her preference, not just my fantasy. I’m a tall hung white guy, so she likes getting something she doesn’t get at home. Ya dig.

Would not mind hearing others take, ideas, suggestions, how it played out for you, etc. I enjoy connecting with other like-minded people, just be honest and cool.