We are a couple who are in this for about 2 years. We have been blessed with luck about finding partners/thirds/friends/bulls or whatever you name them, as we have very dependable regulars and been with north of 20 guys without any major problems.

So far, nobody I know knows about us, excluding friends who have been sexually involved with us.

Not being able to talk about the lifestyle, things that happened, my excitement and anxieties feel like I'm trying to keep too much in me.

Of course, it helps to talk about it with friends involved and my wife, but that's a closed circle that... doesn't cut it somehow.

Happy to hear your experiences and recommendations.