I thought I'd share my own processes before and while my wife is on a date, I'd love to know how similar / different my own experience is compared to others in the LS!

Before my wife organises a meet and we are in the selection process I normally treat her to some new lingerie for her, it does make her feel more confident being dressed up so I'm more than happy to pick her something sexy up, along with any new clothes that she'd like for when meeting up with him.

Normally when she has something sorted with a guy, she'll go out and get her eyebrows and manicure done at a local salon, leaving her pedicure for me to do at home. I'll buff and moisturise her feet before filing and painting her nails (I get as more out of it than she does ha ha) so they're looking great for her. During the week before, I don't cum. Both she and I like to save it until she gets back from her date.

The day before she leaves, I'll normally help her prepare by shaving / waxing her pussy and ass, moisturise her body all over and make sure than any toys that need charging for her to take are fully charged and ready to go before helping her pack her suitcase.

She has a dedicated suitcase for meets and inside is a bag containing a small bottle of lube, condoms, butt plug etc. and depending on what she has organised with her date, we sometimes pack cuffs, blindfold, womanizer, clit pump etc. I help her pick her clothes and shoes that she will meet the guy in, make sure they are ironed for her.

Basically, I do everything I possibly can to help her feel gorgeous, stress free and confident in herself.

On the day she will either drive or catch a train to get to the hotel where she will check in and let me know the address, floor and room number for safety. She'll have a nap before getting herself ready to go down to the hotel bar to meet the guy. Their, she'll let me know if everything is good and after a couple of drinks, she lets me know that they're heading up to the room or calling it a night.

We have had a couple of dates just not turn up which sucks so much when we have booked a hotel and gone through all of the prep for her. It costs a small fortune, and as we only have humble jobs, being let down is unsurprisingly a BIG let down.

That's when the anxiety kicks in for me. I'll normally have a bottle of wine while I wait to hear something. If they have a break or some such, my wife will text and let me know if she's ok without going into too much detail about what they had been up to. Normally that comes later when she sends over videos and photos they had taken while having fun. During that time though, the feelings I have are insane. Anxiety, sex drive through the roof, worry, excitement, adrenaline.....it's a real mix of emotions. Normally, I edge for most of the night. Having not cum for the week before though, it's damn hard not to blow!

When they're finished she normally drops me aessage to tell me what they had got up to, it's also amazing seeing how much she can't wait for me to cum in her when she gets home, the reclaiming is a huge part of the experience for my wife!

Can anyone relate to this experience? I understand that most guys join their hotwives out on their dates, something I have yet to experience!