I’ve been a hotwife for a couple of years now and I’m realizing over and over that I’m still not finding the right bull to fulfill my needs. I keep meeting the same type of “bulls” who are dominant and great at selling themselves when we chat but when we meet they expect me to just suck their dick the whole time and make 0 effort in their appearance when we meet. I put a lot of effort into my appearance and my interactions, I’m very giving but do not feel like I’m meeting men who want the full experience. In a perfect scenario I would want my bull to seduce me and create a sexy environment to fuck. Is this too much to ask? Is there anything I can do to tweak in my vetting process that would help me? I do understand that the term bull is loosely used by many men who just want to fuck married woman which makes it harder to weed out the bad ones.