We are a happily married couple in their late 30's. We have been to nude beaches, nudist resorts & swingers club. Wife comfortable with exhibitionism and voyuerism. Infact finds it to be a huge turn on, especially the swinger club visits.

She loves to watch and get watched while playing at swingers club. We have played with other couples on same bed and the wives have played. Hubbies restricted to their respective wives. Before this wife had never expressed desire to play with women. So, i was pleasantly surprised. I'm trying to convince her to play with men as well. She doesn't want me to play with women, which i have readily agreed to. And also made her believe that I'm not asking her to play with other men so that i can play with women. And, she believes me on this now.

We have been dirty talking while having sex and I'm trying to bring up in our talks... her playing with other men either in MFM threesome or alone while i watch... Anything that she is comfortable with. We are making progress in the dirty talks. Our 10th anniversary is common up next month. I mentioned to her during one of our passionate sessions while dirty talking that i want this as my 10th anniversary gift and she played along by saying yes. But never discussed after that.

So, i want to know how can I make this happen. i feel this 10th anniversary might be an excellent occasion for her to take the plunge. Looking forward to ideas from all of you, especially the women in this group.