Try this again without a broken title!

My wife and I have discussed the lifestyle but we are both hesitant for obvious reasons. We do some fun little play with toys and scenarios, but it has far from taken over our sex life. Anyway, my wife and I were having a discussion about a male masseuse coming and giving her a full body, nude, Swedish massage and we both love the idea. I would leave the house and take the pup to the park and it would just be her naked getting a massage from another man. However, I have some concerns.

I hate the idea of pushing this sexual fantasy onto someone unknowingly. I personally see it as it being a completely professional experience, literally nothing outside of the bounds of a regular full nude Swedish massage. But with both of us coming into it with a sexual perspective makes me worry a little. The last thing I want is to make the masseuse uncomfortable. We obviously wouldn’t tell him, but still.

To state the above more clearly: neither of us want to have anything happen during the experience that wouldn’t normally happen at a completely normal massage. But the idea of a good looking, strong man going up and down her body and seeing parts of her only I have ever seen drives both of us crazy. Am I overthinking this?