I (34) have mentioned to my wife (35) my fetish a few times in the past. Since she was very sexually conservative when we started dating, she almost always stopped the conversation as soon as it started. For other fetishes she became more open and now we have incorporated them in our lives: 1st was foot fetish, more recently FLR. For example, she always reminds me she is the leader of the household, and from time to time asks me to get caged. She even got more comfortable with the FLR stuff more recently (see my post history).

Today, we were naked after sex and I was giving her a full body massage. I don't recall how we got to the point when I joked that I was happy she said a few weeks ago that she had a crush for Ryan Gosling, so now I could imagine her being fucked by him. And she said something like "as if he would ever want to fuck me". Then I reminded her of my fetish and said it would be ok for me if she had a chance. She didn't say anything.

After a bit, we were having dinner and she asked a series of questions about the "hotwife thing": why that excites me so much, how that would work, why wouldn't I also want my side of the relationship open, and "what would be off limits" (her own words). That was the first time she showed some legit interest on it, and I got visibly turned on by the conversation. Then, she laughed at my boner, said she loves me and that she accepts the label and the concept of it turns me on, but she won't do anything with anyone.

I asked her if she was sure about it. If it was something she liked and her response was "it's something I am learning to like because I see how much you like it. Same way I learned to like your foot fetish and FLR and now enjoy them". Then, she ended up saying "well, I think I'm your hotwife now" and smiled. We hugged and kissed for a bit while I was with a huge boner. I didn't try anything sexual because she usually needs time in between orgasms.

What are your thoughts about this? Is she really open to this idea? Is this really happening or am I dreaming? 😅