So I'm into a pretty harsh, humilation-based version of the cuckold fetish, but for me it took some time (years) to separate certain parts of my gender and sexuality from the cuckold fetish. I post here just in case it might be helpful for anyone else; this was kind of a lonely thing to try to figure out and things made way more sense for me once I *did* figure them out.

I'm bisexual, and while that does come into play with the cuckold part of me, it's also totally separate. As in, I'm attracted to the idea of play with a man (a dom) even without a woman present.

I also really enjoy dressing and presenting as way more feminine or androgynous, but that's not even connected to a humiliation fetish for me (I thought it was for a while). It's just how I like to be seen, even in more professional settings.

It took me a very, very long time to realize that being bi and wanting to present more femme are, for me, separate from cuckolding and humiliation, even if all these things overlap sometimes. I know for a lot of people that's not the case! Stuff like bi cuckolding and sissification exist only as a part of the cuckold fetish for them, and I totally get that. For me, though, life snapped into much clearer focus when I figured out I was dealing with three separate things - sexuality, gender, cuckoldry - that sometimes interacted with each other. It also made me more honest and comfortable both as a person and in interactions with people because I could just *be* honest about who I was and what I wanted. I don't know if that's helpful to anyone else, but it made a difference to me, and anyway, knowledge is power so knock yourselves out with it.