Last night I reached out to a guy, shared our couple's fantasy and swapped some pics. He was game, I had to postpone sharing the convo with my wife due to an unexpected event, then next day [deleted]. What's up with that? It's happened to us about a half dozen times. I shared the convo with her tonight and she was into it.

Is it just impatience?

Edit: for whatever reason this post caused a bunch of flakes to reach out to us. Some saying we're too good to be true so we're a catfish (proved them wrong with a personalized verification pic), or another guy who she was very interested in, we chatted over video and he has since ghosted out after sounding so enthusiastic. Flakey flakes, so annoying.