We have been discussing hotwifing for over 10 years, both erotically and practically. Erotically / fantasy wise, we basically have no boundaries, we both have our lanes, but everything turns us on (ONS, regulars, public, vacations, female led, male led, pussy free, sloppy seconds, etc,)

Practically speaking I am much more into vacation themes, out of town. Love the freedom of discretion and the safety of distance. I am also not a watcher, preferring solo dates, and her coming home well fucked.

She on the other hand is practically into locals and regulars and boyfriends. In particular, she gets off on cheating scenarios. From truly behind my back, to don’t ask don’t tell, to I was a naughtywife today… punish me / luck me / etc.

A couple of questions :

• is this „cheating „ aspect a common thing for the wives? (It has been consistent since day one)

• I know there are some terms like FLR and DADT. Would this also fall under Consensual non consent? Any other relevant/ related terms?

Not looking for judgement if it works or not, more just trying to understand it and find a vocabulary for our discussions. Initially, it was a bit scary to me, but over time has become a crazy hot thought of having a free range / insatiable wife with the freedom to do it on her terms.

Not saying I want to move it from fantasy to reality, or that I don’t want to. Just trying to get an outside in perspective on the kink