We've had a one-off threesome kind of experience that was under the guise of hotwife/lifestyle. It was hot and we enjoyed it but it was spontaneous. We started talking about doing a cuck scenario almost a year ago. She'd been sexting one guy the longest because she really likes his body and he is super patient. For my birthday she mentioned she had a incredible suprise lined up. I check my amazon orders and see she bought a sexy lingerie set and a tripod. Birthday came and went, no sexy suprise, she came down with a terrible flu, I understood.

Here's the thing, we never discussed solo play before this, and even if it were agreed upon, she was just going to go for it no discussion or consent.

Later I was asking her what the plan was, she said it was for a sexy boudoir photoshoot. She booked it months out but got sick on the day of. I had to ask, if you had a pro photographer lined up then why did you need a tripod? She laughed, well so I can fuck "longest guy" if the shoot had chemistry. Kind of floored but I wanted to know more.

I asked her out of everything what element was the biggest turn on. 1. Cuck humiliation 2. Sex with other men 3. Sex behind my back (I assured her I can take it)

She came right out and said it. Her kink is to have sex with superior men without me knowing, she gets enjoyment out of humiliation but she has the most interest in basically cheating. We talked about it and agreed on it, she gets a one-off no questions asked, any follow up has to be discussed (she willfully agreed). As much as I would prefer a scenario where I was involved or at least knew about it, I'm interested in seeing where this goes.

Does anyone else have experience with a cheating hotwife kink?

Edit: I'm learning she has a kink that is somewhat CNC with me as the target. I think this is a manifestation of that. I wonder if I should put in writing she has a hall pass but then amp her up saying I hope she doesn't do it though.