As I have been going through these posts, approving and removing posts, I have noticed a common theme.

Guys are asking how do I do anything but talk/communicate with my SO to convince them to do this..

The answer will ALWAYS be, you need to talk and communicate your desires with her. IF you cannot have a conversation about what you want with the person you are with, you SHOULD NOT try to coerce them into it.

Have respect for the woman, who you are trying to have sex with another guy/men.

I cringe when I see guys say, my SO is absolutely not into it, but I want to try to find a way around that and “trick” her or any other similar statement.

Bring up fantasies and see what her reaction is. Some will take a while to think about it and may even consider it, BUT let it go at their pace if they showed any interest.

This is definitely not a lifestyle for everyone. I have been the Bull when the male is trying everything he can imagine to get his SO interested, and then when I do finally talk with her, she is at wits end..

ADMIN AIDE NOTE: A majority of removals of posts/bans come from people asking for the OP to message/chat them, or stating, I sent you a DM or anything similar. Send a message, they will see it and if interested, respond. Those types of comments will ALWAYS be removed and you will end up getting removed. (If you are a brand new account and are unable to send a message, wait till you have experience/time etc to be able to reach out.)