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Hello fellow friends!
Wife and I have enjoyed playing over the past couple years in situations where I am always present and do the communication with the third etc. weāve played on first dates always as we took ample time leading up and I was lead on all convo, not wife.
Now, weāre trying something new. Sheās selecting her playmates and sexting them on messenger apps. This is new to me, very hot but also very new so Iām evaluating my feelings etc. before and after orgasm to make sure weāre both enjoying it- we are!
That said, Iāve never not been present but she likes the idea of āletting her hair downā without the worry of someone watching. It turns me on of course, but it also is a rush of the cuck angst.
My questions are for those who have transitioned to this after being present. How did you cope during? Was it hotter? Any recommendations? Iām presuming Iāll either be in another hotel room or in the car waiting. I get very anxious picturing her return. Just wondering also is it going to be something thatās overwhelming too.
We started doing this after about 6 or 7th guy. We tried threesomes where I was involved. It just didnāt flow. It was awkward and we were always trying to figure out whoās leg goes where yada yada. We realized that it worked best for us if I watch on the bed. Kind of transitioning from being a stag to a cuck. I had no problem with it. She enjoyed herself more. We started talking about the idea of her doing overnights because she wanted to venture into more kinkier things that she knew I wasnāt into and that she was more embarrassed to do with me present (ie doing anal, giving her bull rimjobs. Letting him spit in her mouth). Stuff that I just wasnāt interested in exploring. It worked for US to just let her do overnights. I was anxious in the build up but she called me every time they took a break and was genuinely excited to talk to me. Our conversations were very much āusā and it calmed my nerves every time. Iād recommend having her call you every break. That way, you get to hear each others voices.
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Agreed. My wifeās fwbs are very understanding. Even going so far as to remind her during the breaks. Sometimes I chat with him as well if she hops in the shower or something. I feel VERY reassured and protected when my wife does overnights.