I am the Bull in this scenario. I live in South Florida, 6’3”, and I am half black so I meet the preferences of a lot of wives. Over the years I have been a bull for several couples as I’m also in the lifestyle and my wife encourages this. I have found that the wives preferences and husbands preferences don’t always match. What have you found is the best way to navigate this? Do you alternate between their two or find a way to accomplish both? Just to give an example with the current couple I bull for. She gets off when he sits in a chair and just watches and she is really into it especially when I take her from behind and she faces him and talks to him the whole time. He really gets off when he can be closer, specifically where he can get underneath us in doggy. I can tell that she doesn’t enjoy that as much and its always a guessing game when I come over.