My wife has seen a guy about 6 times over the past few months. They met on a contact site and although I made initial contact, when my wife started talking they moved onto WhatsApp so I wasn’t involved. They meet in hotels. They fuck bareback and when she returns home she tells me all and lets me clean her. I want to be more involved and to feel like I am letting go and accepting my place more. She is lining up to see him on Sunday and I have asked if she would consider inviting him to our house and fucking him in our bed. I don’t have to be in the same room but would like to be in the house. He could also stay the night with me in the spare room. My wife is turned on by the idea but thinks it is too big a step. Has anybody else done this and how did it turn out? I would like to show my wife any comments if it was a positive experience.