So to keep things brief, months back my girlfriend had received a message from a guy she had a thing for and who fucked her a couple of times. They never dated and when he messaged her back I knew about it and she told me he was apologizing for how he was. I found out a few weeks later she had sent him some nudes and he basically let the conversations die down to nothing and we had an issue because even though I did find it hot, I was upset she kept the intimate details a secret.

Not too long ago he came up again and she said that she removed him from Instagram because she didn't want to see him or interact in any way. The thing is, she re downloaded Facebook messenger on her phone and every so often I see her check who's online and looks for his name every time. I know she doesn't use messenger (She doesn't use Facebook and I saw her last message was over a year ago) and it's interesting because I almost fell bad for her. I told her if she was honest with me about everything that I wouldn't mind what happened as well as we can see if we're interested in trying out this type of thing but still she keeps this feeling from me. Before I thought it was because something was going on but now I believe it's because he has no real interest in trying to get with her.

Sorta just wanted to get that off my chest somewhere and maybe see some people's thoughts. Thanks!