When I was in my first serious relationship , I had always fantasized about either being in a 3some with another male and my ex, or just being cucked by her.

After we broke up, that’s when I had gone through my phase of sleeping around with multiple women, casually dating a few for months at a time, but the cuck kink never came into my mind. Neither did the mfm fantasy. Now I’m not the submissive type, but I’m also not the macho type as well. (Just throwing that in for context)

I eventually got with my current gf and after a year or so of dating the cuck fantasy has resurfaced and I long to watch her have sex or join in. My question is, how come the fantasy never popped into my head when I was single, but both loving relationships I’ve been in, the fantasy has ran rampant?