I’m sure there are those who’s cuckold relationship is private and a secret from friends and family and those who are open with it and their friends and family know about it.

We are the former, and for many years. My wife would need her bulls with me, at a dive bar or a bar in another city. Recently though, she’s met her bulls on her own and has started going to the more mainstream bars and popular nightlife cities.

Does anyone else who is private about their cuckold relationship, get really turned on by the risk of having someone see your wife out with a bull.

Our plan has always been. If she’s seen by someone while out at a bar, and obviously dressed up and flirting, and that person decides to actually come up to her. She would just tell them we have an open marriage and to keep it on the low.