My husband has been into this idea of having me hookup with other guys, he always asks me about my exs when we have sex, he asks about how big their dicks were and stuff like that. He asks me to make up stories about how I would cheat on him and he has been suggesting we actually take the step forward and do this whole thing for real. It’s worth nothing that I have cheated on him, numerous times but he has no idea except for one time early on in our relationship where he caught me. And just to be clear, the cheating was purely sexual, no feelings or attachment.

From the sex perspective, my husband doesn’t fully do it for me, he’s great at going down on me but actual intercourse is generally not that fun compared to most other guys I’ve been with.

I’m open to the idea but I do worry about how this all works, rules, how to not ruin my marriage, that kind of thing.