As the title says, gf and guy she met this past weekend finished having sex. They were super inclusive the whole way sending videos and making sure everyone was comfortable but I can’t help feeling underwhelmed.

I can’t tell if it’s just not for me or if I was expecting some crazy “porn-like” content that is shown in all of the top posts on Reddit and in porn and inadvertently comparing the experience to that. Distinctly what I notice is that after it all happened, it felt very hollow of an experience - the guy left quickly and it felt akin to a one night stand. I guess as I’m reflecting , I’m just wondering if this seemingly regular sex that pales in comparison to the sex we have justifies this icky lingering feeling that she was used by someone to get their rocks off and didn’t really bring us closer together as a lot of couples experience through the LS.

TLDR; trying to figure out if it’s just not for me or if the mediocre sex between the bull and my girl in comparison to our own sex life was common and couples that do this experience this often until they find the right guy.