I just wanted to share my perspective on this as a Hotwife. Cuckolding is something most of us participate in because it brings us closer to our spouses. To be sexually free and tap into sensuality few out of the lifestyle will ever understand. Naturally it’s something that is often done as a unit, and having our loving cuck husbands be present (in person or taking videos for) is a rewarding part of the experience. While sharing the experience together is great, I find it very important to have set aside moments that are just for me and my bull. There is an added intimacy between wife and bull that grows when it’s just us behind closed doors. And while it is often and understandably an insecurity in a lot of cuckold relationships at first, having the alone time will ultimately bring the cuck and Hotwife closer. Having the trust and putting the confidence in why we do the to begin with, which is to live and enjoy and meet our fullest sexual needs. I agree in having my husband participate and enjoy himself, and having this important alone time set aside makes the moments he is a participant 10xs better. Just my thoughts on the matter and of course everyone’s situation and dynamic is different.