Before I begin, I want to apologize for my arrogance and the way I will phrase things. I hope you understand that my arrogance is not a flaw, but rather a personality trait.

I often see posts asking how to tell my wife about my fantasy. This is the wrong question; the right question should be, "What are the consequences of telling my wife about my fantasy?" Another common question is how to convince my wife. Once again, the question is wrong. You will rarely convince her to do something she doesn't want to do. And if you do, it's not because of the arguments you use, but because you have shown your wife how inappropriate and pathetic your masculinity has become. It's only when your wife realizes that you're not man enough to have her by your side that she starts to think more seriously about your fantasy. You don't convince her through excitement, but rather through disappointment.

However, even if she is convinced, she won't take the first step without being sure that she maintains her emotional stability and security. If she depends on you emotionally, financially, or family-wise, she is unlikely to move forward with your adventure.

After telling your wife about your fantasy, you don't need to convince her to do anything. Maybe you need to convince her to tell you what she will do behind your back. Many who are desperate to convince their wives to cheat on them have probably been cheated on several times without knowing it.

Another much-discussed issue is the involvement of people close to your wife, such as the best friend, ex-boyfriend, boss, etc. In this issue, what really happens is a fascination on the cuckold's part for another man that he recognizes as superior and a leader. Often the wife accompanies this understanding, other times not. Most of the time, it's just a fetish of the cuckold to be even more dominated by a man who already has a great influence over him, but the real issue that no one talks about is: Is your wife prepared to assume in her closest social circle, in front of everyone, that she is married to a cuckold? This reality is also a factor that embarrasses your wife. Also, you don't need anything for your best friend to sleep with your wife; he has probably thought about it several times, and if he hasn't done it yet, it's because he hasn't had the opportunity.

Another problem that is often addressed is telling third parties about your cuckold reality. Many times, I hear that they have told their best friend, the wife's best friend knows, and no one else knows. Forget that; if your best friend knows, your best friend's best friend also knows, which means everyone knows. If you don't want anyone to know, don't tell anyone.

Another situation is the cuckold's obsession with penis size. Does size matter? Yes, it does, there is no doubt about that, but believe me, it's not such a determining factor for your wife's pleasure. Most bulls have an average-sized penis, just like you. The essential difference is in attitude.

Lastly, don't give much importance to professional cuckold accounts; their goals are not solely pleasure, but also profit, which is why their opinion encompasses a different concept than the more traditional cuckold.

I hope you forgive me for any generalization or radicalism; as in everything, there are exceptions. However, this is my most sincere analysis of these topics.

In conclusion, the cuckold stage is the last stage of frustration with the realization of the failure of masculinity. It occurs when the cuckold is comfortable with his inferiority and accepts it to the point where his lack of confidence in himself makes it easier to find pleasure in his condition.