So my girlfriend and I are only at the very beginning of this journey, as in only just even started having the courage to mention to her the idea that the thought of her with another guy is exciting to me. We are a fairly young post-college couple. She actually did cheat on me early on so this isn't like a totally new topic for us but we're definitely novices at this, and completely legit.

Anyway, one of the things I've always struggled with around the thoughts regarding this dynamic is how much hotter it seems if the guy were somebody that really gets under my skin - like a former academic rival or sports enemy or something. And honestly it feels like nothing is more adversarial than politics these days with like intense vitriol over the topic. I lean on the conservative side so the idea, well number one of admitting how much the thought of being cuckolded turns me on to begin with as a conservative, is a bit of an embarrassing pill to swallow, but most centrally the idea of getting cuckolded by a guy who's a liberal or leftist just adds this extra level of intensity to the arousal. I mean I'm not totally sure because maybe somebody like-minded would be a better comfort zone, but it just feels like that whole realm of political opposition is excitingly hot (like, do Republicans or Democrats have bigger dicks, etc.... those thoughts are exciting to me too). I guess it's in the same spirit that racial dynamics in cuckolding can be exciting, but I don't know...

1) am I the only one who finds the idea of being cuckolded by someone with ragingly opposite politics really exciting (in my case by a liberal bull)?

2) And am I the only normally smart and stubborn conservative who secretly has cuckold fantasies generally? Do you think this fetish predominates on either side of the aisle more than the other?

Anyway, curious to hear your thoughts from again a real prospective cuckold couple just embarking on a very exciting and nerve-wrackingly scary journey together. Facing your fears and fantasies when they're one in the same is... intense.