So about a month ago my girlfriend was messaged by an old fling of hers and at one point she sent me some nudes where she was freshly shaved (which she doesn't do often) and we had great sex the next time we could. I found out later that she sent him the same pictures and was upset more at the fact that she kept it a secret more than anything as I've told her I would like her to be open about stuff like that. She knows I'm into hotwife stuff and hearing about her with other guys from her past and just wanted her to be honest with me.

I can't lie when I found out she sent him pictures I was very turned on aside from not knowing. I asked her if she sent him other pictures and she said no but I found deleted photos from that same day that I never got. Also, he stopped talking to her shortly after he got the pictures and she hadn't shaved again since. I asked her if she shaved and took the pictures for him and she said no but looking at everything I don't really believe that and that she's lying to try and 'protect' me as her sex drive has went back down.

Last time I brought up the pictures to get info she got upset so it's hard to figure out what to do. If she just was completely honest and told me 'I was turned on, he asked me for pictures so I shaved and took some for him and sent them to you too' I would be okay. I just don't know what to do when it feels I can't break through right now so figured I'd come here for some advice