We are possibly thinking of meeting up with this guy and possibly meeting him at a sex club that’s local to us. He’s not huge, a little over 7”; I’m 6 inches and very girthy. So he’s not huge compared to me which I kind of like for the first time, “allowing” her to do another guy. Now keep in mind we are totally new to this type of thing. We are just now getting into the LS community and we haven’t even had our first experience with a couple as of yet. I know a little to nothing about doing these kind of things. I asked my wife point-blank if it turns her on to think about fucking another guy and she’s very hesitant to tell me it does but instead she says “well it’s intriguing”. I guess I’m just looking for discussion and support. It does sort of turn me on to think about her fucking another guy and I’m just not totally sure about my feelings on this. Also, if it does happen, I am curious about what role I want to have and this threesome. I don’t want to sit back and just watch him do her. I want to be involved too. For reference I am 61 and my wife is 51. We have a very solid relationship. Thank you for your comments and support.